Parents in law are moving here from interstate not long after bubs is born....Which is lovely! But I am getting the impression from what they have said that they want to take my little ones out where ever and whenever they please, since they will be retired! And I feel like they will be taking over my routine somewhat.
Now, I am not used to this thought at all, since I am a SAHM, who loves every second I have with DS, and no doubt with Bubs when born too. I have never had DS looked after, and never intended to! I believe its a grandparents right to see their gran kiddies, but the thought of them taking over a bit scares and depresses me already! I would be worried sick the whole time that they would have him/them, and just wouldnt feel comfortable with it at all.
I would like to just see them once a f/night or week, to spend a day as a whole family together, and would think that for now that would be enough!

Do you think I am being too over protective? They are very good with DS, but a bit too care free. I would never forgive myself if something happened to him in their care.
Does anyone else feel this way? Do I just come out and tell them, when the time comes, that i am just not comfortable with him not being with me?

Thanks all.