Jen, congrats on your DD!

Hun, she is still so tiny, she only knows being inside you where it's nice and warm She just wants to be near her mum. It's up to you how you do things, but don't stress yourself out, and feel like a failure if "what you're supposed to do" doesn't work. Go with the flow, and do what YOU feel is best for your DD, you and your DH.

I can't help with more practical suggstions as my DS was prem, and slept all the time as a newborn. Don't worry I'm paying for it now LOL.

I just re-read your post.......that's a long time for her to be awake. Is she settled?