First of all, congratulations on your little girl! At this early stage I really wouldn't stress yourself out about her falling asleep in your arms. She is still very little and new and needs help going to sleep in the outside world. The things you read can really stress you out so it might be worth not reading them right now lol!

As she gets a little older it is great if you can teach her to fall asleep in her bed by herself, not everyone likes to do this though so only do it it that is what you want, not because you think you "should" do it. In the early days I would wrap my DS, give him a little cuddle, put him in the cot and put him on his side and pat him rythmically on his back. I also used a dummy. This helped calm him down and I could then walk away to let him fall asleep by himself. Sometimes I would have to go in a couple more times for more patting, but he would eventually go to sleep. You don't have to put bub on her side, you can just pat her tummy or shoulder.

It is all a very big learning experience and you will find some things work better than others for your DD. Don't compare her to anyone elses baby because they are all different! Just enjoy her, give her lots of love and cuddles right now. They are only that little for so long. Trust your own instincts and you will do a great job