Have a big list of activities to keep the little one happy when you are lying on the couch feeling green. Sticker books, glue sticks and shapes, rice and containers, making musical instruments.
If it's summer during this time, a bucket of water a containers keeps them happy for aaaages.
it's hard. it's really hard.....
i think the best part about it though is that you can sleep when the toddler sleeps........but that all stops when the baby comes along.
TBH i haven't found it that hard...
At the beginning i would have big spewing sessions and DD was big enough to understand mum was sick, she'd often rub my back for me
I get tired, but i simply have a nap every day when she has her nap.
THe only thing i find hard is the visits to the doc, dd absolutely hates them (BORING!! lol), so i always try and organise with my mum to babysit.
so yea... no problems here! guess i'm a lucky one!
Might be changing my attitude when bub is born tho, lol
GL and i hope you get the BFP soon!
I was pregnant from the time Darcy was 1and10months until 2 and 10months (long story more than 1 pregnancy), and I found work harder and more tiring than my very very active toddler.
At the end of the day at least she loved me.
I think it depends on the pregnancy.
I was pregnant with DS2 when DS1 was a toddler. I cruised through wasn't too tired, no M/S.
Where as if I'd had a toddler to look after during this pg I couldn't have coped I was just too sick I litterally couldn't get out of bed for the first 9 weeks except to use the toilet.
It depends on the pg and the toddler. This is my second time doing it. I have found the last trimester the hardest both times, because I am soo tired and sore and need a rest, but my toddlers just keep going and going and going. Having said that I haven't found it too bad either time overall. Particularly if you can rest when they do. The biggest thing is that you often don't have time to just appriciate being pg. So often I just completely forget that I have a whole other little person inside waiting to come out.
Also try not to get too much mummy guilt if you need a rest and put a DVD or the TV on for an hour. When they are 10 they are not going to remember the couple of months they got to watch alot of the Wiggles because mum was on the couch having a rest - back it up with a big box of fun stuff like Lulu said - and bring it out ONLY when you are having a rest on the couch etc.
THen, revamp the box when bubs arrives so it has more age appropriate stuff (cos #1 gets bigger and interests change too) for when you are feeding - whether it be bottle or breast hun - special things to play with when bubs having a snack.
Stickers are fantastic, you can get a box of them for like $2 at the reject shop or similar, a 69 cent scrapbook, and they will spend ages just putting them in no particular order into the book - it is gorgeous to watch, and you can still talk about what they are doing whilst having a rest
Good luck. I was working 3 days a week when preg with DD - they were my rest days!!!
Lucy in the sky with diamonds.
- back it up with a big box of fun stuff like Lulu said - and bring it out ONLY when you are having a rest on the couch etc.
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