TBH i haven't found it that hard...
At the beginning i would have big spewing sessions and DD was big enough to understand mum was sick, she'd often rub my back for me

I get tired, but i simply have a nap every day when she has her nap.

THe only thing i find hard is the visits to the doc, dd absolutely hates them (BORING!! lol), so i always try and organise with my mum to babysit.

so yea... no problems here! guess i'm a lucky one!

Might be changing my attitude when bub is born tho, lol
GL and i hope you get the BFP soon!