Another thread brought me to this.
Why do we use labels when it comes to parenting, like "gental parenting" so what would you call a parent who doesnt co-sleep, doesnt baby wear, introduces solids early etc etc are we "hard parents" I feel that when I hear the word "gentle parenting" I get the guilts like wow am i a bad mum coz i couldnt manage to breast feed, because my son went into his own room at 7 weeks, because occasionally when i know he is super tired ill let him cry for a little bit.

Why cant we just be parents, as simple as that.
We all make different choices, my son & daughters are happy, well adjusted & healthy we do whats right for us and we are no worse off for it.