My sisters ex partner and his mother took my niece when she was 8 months and got her ears pierced behind my sisters back.
It caused murder tbh.
She kept them in and they do look adorable but Laura would have waited until Anaiis was older.
I think speak to your dh and discuss it 1st.
I had mine done at 2 and I don't wear earrings much anymore but they are still open so I can put them in whenever. xx