I'm also against the grain, but tbh, I think it's tacky. I had mine done when I was 6. Is there any harm in waiting a few years?

And if I did something like piercing behind my DH's back he'd be devastated, especially if he'd expressed an opinion against it.

:yeahthat: I think it looks cheap and is unnecessary. I had mine done at 13 and that is when DD will be allowed to get them done if a
She chooses.
Doing on the sly makes the whole thing tackler.