Oh thank goodness it's not just me alligators mum.

I think that might be a big part of my problem that I am interacting with him too much. I have been staying in his room until I have had jack of his mucking around then sit outside his door.

I will try just sitting outside his room tonight and no interaction and see how I go (well I might also make DH do it for the first time in a while too)

I guess if all else fails I can set up the cot again next week end.

Thank you for sharing ladies, it's really help me get some perspective that isn't just annoyed feelings