OH hun you most defintiely havent stuffed up..you have followed your intincts so thats not a stuff up in my eyes!

The main problem I found in co sleep[ing and feeidnt to sleep was everyone elses opinions made me second guess my own feelings and judgement. None of my family ever so slept so I visited a friend who did it with all of her kids and she made me feel so much better and happy with my choices.

If you really want to wean him from BM and co cleeping then go about it very gradually and calmly. If it doesnt work out one night dont stress about it just ket hime sleep with you and try again the nect night. the slower and more gradual it is the better for both of you. the no cry sleep soloution is great as to "helping your baby to sleep" which you can buy in the BellyBelly online store I believe.

you have done a great job xxx