I am with everyone else here. It will be what it will be, and no matter what you have, there will always be those out there with all sorts of stories for you.

As for 2 under 2, I have that, my boys are 18m apart, and I planned it that way, (in fact I started TTC earlier, but my cycles took a bit to come back, so it took a bit of time)... I figured that I was already "up to my elbows" in nappies, mess, bottles, tanties etc that I may as well just keep going. And I went into it knowing that I would have a tough 6 months, and it has been. But it has also been rewarding too. As MR said, there is no jealousy with DS1 as he is too young to know differently. And DS2 has been a bit tricky, but has really just come along for the ride so to speak.

DS2 is now 5m and I feel like I am coming out of a fog. He is finally getting into his own rhythm, and things are getting a little more predictable in our lives. And DS1 is now willing him to be old enough to play.

I didnt tell people we were TTC, but after I was pg some people used to go "wow" and give a look, and I would just go OOPS and roll my eyes, and change the topic. I could not be bothered getting into it, as I was so comforatble with my decision, and I kind of made it into a personal joke with DH and I. Good luck with TTC this time. xo