I don't have my second bub in my arms yet but just wanted to say that I got the exact same as you when we told people we were pg again!

It really amazed me how many people either assumed it was a "whoops" - like my friend's mum who asked me if knew you could fall pg if you were still bf?? - or they asked us if it was planned! (Same thing, phrased a different way).

I basically started pre-empting people by saying "Yep, call us crazy but we figure we're so used to nappy changes, night waking and everything else like that, we figure we'll just keep going with it!"

I honestly do think it'd be harder to have a bigger gap - have baby #1 out of nappies, sleeping well, etc and then have to go back to it all! It'd be a shock!!

But as I said above - number 2 hasn't arrived yet and this opinion may very well change in about 2 months when I'm in the thick of it

Good luck!