I love having 2 under 2! Sure there are hard times but they love each other and play for hours. Dd2 was home sick while dd1 was at daycare and she seemed to be bored she kept saying dd1s name and going to her room. It was very sweet I felt sad for her. They have similar routine which helps the eat and go to bed at nighttime at the same time. No 3 wasn't planned but I am happy to have another one so close. There is 20 months between 1 and 2 and will be about 18 this time.