We are very excited to be pregnant with our second bub, who will be 20 months younger than our first, so pretty close together. While we planned it this way I am starting to have an occassional freak out in terms of wondering how we are going to adjust to two. I am just trying to profit from everyone elses experience here and find out what were some of the best ideas/strategies you came up with in terms of 1) preparing a 20 month old for sharing mummy and daddy- most of the books and ideas that I have seen are for older toddlers 2)entertaining toddler while you feed and attend to bubs 3)Fitting in all the feeds/sleeps and still making sure your toddler gets some outings/activities etc. Any ideas would be fantastic.
Cheers,
Jacqui