Wow pleased someone else is having the same thoughts...when bub no 2 arrives my DS will be 20mth and with no family and very few friends to help out and also I dont drive I have been up and down about the pg. Fantastic tips, I have just started to go to a playgroup so that Aaron has some funtime and also looked at a daycare centre yesterday so he can go there for a few hours one day a week. A lady I keep in contact with from my old work suggested that we have a drawer or box full of bits and pieces and when its time for feeding bubs bring it out and let them play with it...she did that with hers and also told her daughters to do that when they had their children. So thats the only tip I have to share but have picked up a huge amount from reading other peoples posts, thanks!
Sus
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