Hi ladies, Just a couple of questions about having bub in your room in a bassinette.
How does it work with your DH/DP in the bed too, i mean how do you go about your stuff without waking them up or keeping them awake if bub has woken them?
Things like overnight nappy changes, flicking the light (phone/night light something smallish) on and off to find things in the dark/change nappy, and being able to see to get a good attachment in the beginning
Also how do you do the night feeding without waking/keeping DH/DP up? Do you sit up and feed on the bed or have a feeding chair in your room or something entirely different?

I'll be honest im being slightly selfish in wanting bub in our room simply because its so cold at night and i want to get us all settled as quickly as possible each time theres a night call so as to limit bub and I being cold and obviously limit how long we are awake for too, I never had DD in our room as DH isn't into that and i know if he is kept awake or constantly woken once he goes back to work he will order her into her own room and there's nowhere for me to sleep in there, it wasnt as big a deal then though as it was october, the only real down side i found was it was harder to settle her by the time i got to her room as she had been awake longer itms.

Anyway just wondering what everyone else does?
I'm probably overthinking this, but it just occured to me that i'm probably going to keep DH awake/awake longer with bub in with us and thought there might be some tips others could share with me.

TIA