Thanks Lucy - it helps a lot. I thought I was not reacting to her eating, but maybe I am. I think we do praise her a bit too often when she does eat. I don't make a big deal of waste in front of her, I either eat it, chuck it or put it in the fridge (if still safe to do so). Don't tend to have had food restrictions here, but it does get hard when all she is asking for is chocolate so I do end up saying no and I suppose that is where she getting a reaction from.