What Dachloster says sounds like great advise. i only recently got a HAB and still getting used to it but the few times i have used it Tyron has settled within a minute or so!

Please do come and chat in the October buddies thread,doesnt matter that "officially" you have a November bub! I still chat with my June buddies 06 and my DS1 came in April.
its always good to know other people are feeling the same or going through the same things as you are, or even not the same maybe something completley different that you are having no troubles with, but you bounce idea's off each other and realise everyone has "something" they need to overcome

i wonder if you are near of far from me, it would be great to meet up. one of the Oct girls Claire is organising a playgroup and most of us going have atleast one other child and a newborn.
First meet up (i know it might be too soon) is Monday the 19th in Parramatta, then we will decide what we will do (thinking a play centre/park or something to keep te older ones occupied) let me know if you may be interested.
im looking forward to something to get me out of the house and also share experiences because we are all going through the same thing.