i totally agree with the PP! imo there is no point trying to feed on a schedule or force a routine on a baby because it's only going to be a few weeks before they'd change again - just when you think they're doing the same thing each day, they change!!

i felt that after about 6-8 weeks our days/nights had a rythym of sorts but certainly no routine. demand feeding is an awesome way to make sure your baby is getting enough milk to meet their needs

keep doing what you're doing & block out the 'advice' from people saying things like you should have a routine, put the baby down or it will never learn to sleep on it's own, don't respond when it cries because it's manipulating you - all of that is absolute rubbish!

enjoy the newborn cuddles, hold your baby as much as you want, for as long as you want & feed them when they're hungry. the time passes so quickly & before you know it they're a defiant toddler (and god only knows what comes next )