Yasin has really bad seperation anxiety about DH. He doesn't seem to worry so much about me but when DH is around he will get upset if he goes into another room. Every time DH has to leave for work Yasin gets quite hysterical if he notices and will start getting extra clingy as soon as he notices him getting his keys, phone etc. We're not quite sure how to handle it - is it better for DH to give Yasin a kiss and a hug goodbye, tell him he will be back in the evening or a few days or whenever and then go despite the hysterics or the other method where I take him to the garden and play while DH sneaks out. The second method avoids the tears but I feel that its kind of sneaky and I worry that its making his anxiety worse because he turns around and DH has vanished and I also worry that he will trust me less because when I take him for a play his daddy vanishes.
I geuss that maybe what makes it worse is that DH might be gone for an hour, a day or a week so the fact that Yasin can't predict how long it will be is unsettling for him.
Does anyone have any ideas because its tough on all of us to have to cope.