Miss 14 mths hates pooping. She whimpers and crys and pleads with her eyes.
I try give her a high fiber breakfast and pears helped when she was younger. I find its worse if she hadn't pooped for a day.
Prunes help some and kiwifruit juice is also recommend.
I'm glad you have worked out this is what her playing is about
ds1 has always hated pooping cause of the feeling. In his toddler days he even would limit his food so he wouldn't poop.
We got him a book that explained the system to him. It was his fav book. Showed the poop book to EVERYBODY that visited.
I like the happy place idea
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we have had HUGE problems with this issue, DS was almost completely day TT, then he had a bad reaction to some antibiotics and stopped pooing
I tried everything natural I could think of, prunes, juice, apricots, pears etc, etc...
Giving fibre can actually make it worse.
its a tricky thing as just one hard to poo moment will trigger the fear, then they hold on again for too long and it hurts the next tie and the cycle continues.
I received some fantastic advice from here on this forum, I went to see the GP and explained what I I thought was going on, what research I had done, and how I thought best to treat it, he was amazed and just basically told me it would be fine and to go ahead. we started using parachoc, everyday, for about 3 months, until he would again go to the loo with no complaints (I have had him screaming in hysterics at doing poos, doing them in the bath, doing the "poo dance" until he couldn't hold it in anymore, its heart breaking!)
We have had a few regressions (hospital stays, operations etc... it all went down hill!)but we are now almost on the other side again.
Thanks all! Yes Starrysky, fibre can make it worse if they don't have a lot of liquid to go with it...
Someone told me to try Parachoc which we started yesterday - she pooed last night and again this morning
No distress this morning either
Starrysky - Do you know how long you can use Parachoc safely?? Your poor son, he sounds much much worse than my DD
We have not had hysterics, just whimpering... so she isn't too bad I guess.
This has only happened within the last 3 weeks or so, so hopefully because I have gotten on top of it quickly, it won't turn into a longterm thing, fingers crossed!
I just want to continue with Parachoc until she poos without distress consistently... because the poos are nice and soft now. I keep telling her the poos are soft and they won't hurt, and we also gave the poo a name (another recommendation) - Mr Pooey is very cheeky and I put my ear to her tummy and tell her I can hear him calling to come out (at the times when she is whimpering)...
I've also started her on a probiotic powder in her WeetBix, as well as lots of diluted pear juice to keep fluids up & aid soft movements.
The good thing about NEVER giving her junk food is that now, she gets tiny chocolate stars (new Milky Way product) as a reward and it's a huge incentive! ..... I hoped I would never have to use this method, but desperate times call for desperate measures & stickers just don't cut it.
Last edited by goddessofdawn; August 30th, 2012 at 01:27 PM.
We still have to encourage J to go to the toilet, DP has told him the toilet has to be fed everyday lol, "the toilets hungry!" we use the milky way stars too! and he gets a sticker on his chart, but if we didnt say anything he would still not go on his own.
I think because J was so bad, it may have damaged the nerves and stretched the bowel so now he doesnt recognise the " I need to poo" signals.
Just make sure to keep on top of it, it seemed like as soon as we thought all was good and stopped the parachoc, he would just revert bac, or something would happen and it would all have to start again.
His diet if fantastic, hardly ever gets junk (apart from the "poo stars" lol) eats so many varieties of fruit and vegetables.
I give J a yakult thing every day now too, seems to help.
Good luck with it, I think with the parachoc it can be safely used for a while but under docs supervision and like all laxatives can lead to dependence if used too much.
Hi goddessofdawn, sorry that I didnt see your PM. Have replied now. Please make sure you go under medical supervision for this problem, if you stop the parachoc too early then you may find that you go backwards rather rapidly same with Osmolax etc. You can use parachoc quite safetly for up to 12 months under medical supervision, after 12 months its recommended you seek a review. The only issue with parachoc is all its lovely conditions of use which may mean that another medication may be more effective for long term use. However I hope you dont need my advice anymore and things are looking up for you.
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