Miss 14 mths hates pooping. She whimpers and crys and pleads with her eyes.
I try give her a high fiber breakfast and pears helped when she was younger. I find its worse if she hadn't pooped for a day.
Prunes help some and kiwifruit juice is also recommend.

I'm glad you have worked out this is what her playing is about

ds1 has always hated pooping cause of the feeling. In his toddler days he even would limit his food so he wouldn't poop.
We got him a book that explained the system to him. It was his fav book. Showed the poop book to EVERYBODY that visited.

I like the happy place idea

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