So I'm not important anymore

[Phteven]

I think it shows what a great job you're doing. He's so secure about your love that he knows that he can reject you a bit.

[Shanti]

You're his MUM, you will always be his MUM and there will never be another MUM for him it's normal and part of their development to bond with other people other than us. I know how you feel, it kinda feels like they're not interested in you all of a sudden when they have always needed us so much particularly that first 12-18mths, and with your pND is would be hard. But honestly, he loves you