Yeah, what an old troll that nurse is - Rylee is a catnapper - can only go for 45 mins at a time and takes me forever to get her settled during the day - I am so fed up with reading books and people saying what babies SHOULD and SHOULDN'T be doing - I have stressed myself out to the max with trying to fit Rylee into what she SHOULD or SHOULDN"T be doing that in the end both of us end in tears so I now think to hell with it - babies are babies and all are different and will do different things and when you put it into perspective when they are this little they havn't been in the outside world that long and they need time to adjust....sorry if I sound grumpy - just a tad tired - but try and go with the flow and I am told things will get easier.....sorry this isn't much help but you aren't alone. Laurin