THanks girls.
Yes she is strong enough to lift her head and if she is completely face down she puts her little hands under her eyes (looks funny when she wakes like a panda).
BUt she isnt rolling belly to back yet and i guess that is what worries me.

I never thought of removing the anti-roll? should it?
I still swaddle her most nights to and like my other post just put the bumper up!