She gets lots and lots of cuddles and attention from me. Actually these 'tantrums' don't happen a lot, but when they do it's usually after daycare and she's tired. When she was younger I could clearly see she was really upset and I would hold her, but as she's getting older I can see the difference quite clearly. Distraction works most times, I will sit on the floor with her and get her engrossed in something and then try slip away I'm always in sight (our house is tiny!)
Lucky these don't happen too often, but it's nice to know she isn't the only one doing this!

Teeki, your ds tantrum sounds exactly like my dd's