Tegan it is hard to deal with two little ones and i know how hard it will be once Jacob goes to Adelaide but you will be fine. Maybe try and get in to a routine before he goes. With Lily and i know not many do it but have you thought about day care for her so at least you get a day with just Charlie and you get a bit of a break.

I'm the same as you i have no family support around me and some days i don't know how i do it but i have managed to work through it. I take everyday as it comes and if the kids are driving me crazy i just take them out even if it's just to the park for a little while.

Hope Charlie stops all the screaming for you soon.