Hi, this could be a really dumb series of questions but I want to make sure I get it right!

We are using disposable nappies, but of course baby clothes still get dirty with things like wee, poo, vomit, milk etc. So what exactly is the routine with them? I've heard about dry pailing nappies etc, but wanted to get the low down on the easiest and simplest method of dealing with them. Do you just chuck the dirty stuff in an empty bucket until you've got a load? Or do you soak everything in Napisan? Do you wash everything in Napisan or in one of those sensitive skin washes? What about tumble drying things like Wondersuits (it says not to on the label)?

Help - tell me what you do and what works best (and is easiest)!!!