My DD turns 3 in January and still has a day sleep between 1-3pm generally. If she's not awake by 3.30pm I go in and wake her up. She then goes to bed about 7-7.30pm.

If we have a really busy day and we're out, she can go without one but she's a bit cranky at night and we have trouble getting her to eat her dinner etc too.

She's been refusing to sleep at MILs lately on the days I'm at work not sure what goes on there cause I have no trouble getting her to have a sleep at home. She doesn't run into her room like she used to for her nap, but it's not a battle or anything.

I'd like her to keep it up for a while yet.