Thanks everyone. I don't remember Mis J being like this (although i'm sure she probably was and I just don't remember it ) I've been cycling her legs, 2 warm baths during the night, had her cuddles up to me during the night, trying to get her to have extra water with a tiny bit of brown sugar and some without (none of which she was interested in but will keep trying), extra feeds and massage. Hoping she does it soon!