I do M.tea & A.tea when she asks for it. Sometimes she will eat at 10am a main meal & only have snacks before bed at lunchtime, but the thing is she will eat anything when she is hungry so I give her healthy food then. Fruit & veges when she is most hungry & Matilda will eat it all then, but if I offer her it for lunch there is no way. I think if they are too tired they won't eat as well.