Ditto Suse!

Enjoy your baby It goes sooo fast, so just cuddle them etc as much as you want to. I used to worry a little about the 'rod' but I've quickly worked out that in most cases it just does not exist. And where it did, we sorted it out fairly easily. Their babyhood is too short to be spending time worrying about such things

I couldn't agree more with what Willow said......you might want things a certain way, but your baby is a little person, and their needs may be (probably will be!!!) different to your wants. And at the end of the day, they come first