Seems to be a theme here... go with the gut...lol. When will we learn, really!!

mbear, that's good feedback. Thank you so much!

Well, omg you wouldn't believe it. I feel like I had a sign this morning. The phone rang at around 7:45am... YES AM and I was like WTH is calling me this early! Well turns out to be the swim school (the new one) and they wanted us to come earlier as a lot of kids had called in sick so they were cancelling his time and bringing it all forward. I told them no we have some things to do before swimming (hmmm is it bad to lie?? lol) and that it was ok we'll do it next week (gives me a couple of days to build up some courage to speak to them - I was thinking of telling them that his old swim school has changed his time back and that we will be continuing there... what do you think about that???). So, I got off the phone and thought WOW I think that's a sign, the decision has been made for me. Also, in hindsight the time of the classes at the new school is pretty bad with his sleep time, cos he actually seems to be having his nap pretty much around that time now anyway.