Gee Rae your lucky that ella sleeps so well during the day. DD finished her sleep when she stopped b/fng (2). And DS has 2 sleeps but im lucky if it is for 3 hours. Its usually 1 1/2 most times. Depends heaps on the weather to, if its cold he stays snug for a while longer, his smart already, Lol.
I to didnt start him on solids till 6 months so i guess that to is when he slept alot better.
I know what you mean about the dream feeds, there funny when they do that hey. Cute!

Our bed time for DS is 5pm to so if he manages to stay awake past that which is rare cause he is so ready at that time, then he doesnt tend to wake up as much either cause he had his dinner later kwim.

Everyones different with how they do things and what suits them. It may not necessarily agree with most but its you who has to be happy and content with your choices.