At times like that I refocus - and thank above that they are happy, healthy and safe.

My son is becoming a great help to me this preg time - I think since bubba gave him a big kick that he felt and was soooooo amazed and realised there really is a baby in there I just have to tell them both mummy is having a lay down (I can't day sleep - bummer!) and they will now play happily for an hour or watch a movie.

I understand your vent though!!! but at the end of the day, it is just a bit of mess - not blood!!