No advice here. Dd1 is 2.5 and doesn't sleep through and is cuddled to sleep. She wakes 2-5 times a night. DD2 is 12 months and is fed to sleep, and wakes 2-5 times a night too, and feeds back to sleep for all of those times. I honestly don't care. Sometimes I wish that DD2 wouldn't wake while in trying to watch a movie at night, or that I could have a glass of wine when I wind down, or that when DD2 is unsettled, it didn't take like 2 hours of feeding and cuddling to get her to sleep...but really, we get the most sleep this way. I feed her lying down in bed (she sleeps in our bed) and barely wake up. DH cosleeps in DD1's bed, she hardly wakes when he's in there, but if he comes back to our bed she'll generally wake up looking for him. For us, we know it's not going to last forever, and that they'll make up for the lack of sleep when they're teenagers Resigning to that and not obsessing or worrying about it helps a lot, acceptance makes it easy honestly. This is our life, and that's okay