Can I gently suggest that if you have a baby that 'only' feeds four hourly that you thank your lucky stars???

Seriously, that is completely normal baby behaviour. Perhaps reading some of the books that Ginger has mentioned to you will help you to feel more comfortable with your baby's feeding and waking patterns. It's so hard with your first baby, you don't really know what to expect, and they are ALL different. And don't come with a manual LOL! Honestly, there are so many babies out there that feed 2 hourly, or more often. If your baby feeds four hourly and thrives, you are one lucky mama . Even formula fed babies can wake often, despite the myths that they sleep better (usually not true). At least if you're breastfeeding you CAN breastfeed your baby back to sleep. FF mummies have to use other means if their baby has woken for reasons other than food. Babies wake for lots of reasons.........it sounds like yours wakes for a feed, and then is happy to resettle?

Oh, and good work on your breastfeeding efforts, sounds like you're doing a great job