If they vaccinate why should they worry their children will get it?
That is the biggest point that I make!!!
I make a point of explaining that I done a lot of research and feel that this is the best decision for my child at this time. I can go into all the 'reasons' but usually people have huffed at me and have no interest in that part anyway

But at the end of the day I do not have to justify my actions to anyone except myself and my child. I do know how you feel though, hun, sometimes others can be so cruel and it makes things all that much harder. Obviously you feel that this is the best thing for your child or you wouldnt be doing it!