Rania - I tried to pm you but you're set up to not receive pm's. It's personal choice, don't let anyone tell you whats 'right' and 'wrong' you find what works for you. Best advice I heard was think of their first few months as the fourth trimester, they are adjusting to the outside world. I've always just done what works. DS has slept both in his cot and also in bed with me, I have done whatever I need to do to get more sleep for us both. Just find what works and go with it then adjust as you go if need be.