Having just had my second bub I have experienced both types of sleepers. My first didn't sleep well at all and generally was unsettled most of the time (bless her heart) she is now sleeping in a big bed of her own at 21 months and 1 day sleep but we still need to be in there with her while she falls asleep. Our second is just under 2 weeks and we were ready to have another like dd1 as that's all we knew but have been surprised with a sleeper this time just do what you are comfy with and what works at the time but I work on the principle that you can't spoil a newborn so don't pressure myself to make any 'rules' till after 3 months. Good luck with your bub x x