Mel,

I used to have to wipe in a little. Not actually inside her vagina, but I open her labia a little and wipe the poop off. When she was bf every now and then she's so a really huge and disgusting poo so I'd just wash her bum under the bathroom sink, or if I felt like it just give her a bath. I couldn't leave any poo in there, I'd be more worried of leaving too much 'yuck' on her and infection than hurting her. If I was hurting her, I'm sure she'd cry and let me know!