I see your point ausgirl but even before DS we never ate at the table always in the loungeroom with the tv on.

I think that is what annoyed me about last night as well is that OH and I were going to have a different tea to DS last night cause DS doesn't eat tacos and that's what OH wanted. DS is a plain eater... steak/chicken and vege (carrots, zuchinni, brocoli, cauliflower) cause he eats that so well I am not worried that he doesn't eat tacos. I served DS tea about 5.50pm So it seemed to me like he put all this pressure onto DS to eat and we weren't even eating!!