I don't disagree with no toys and even no tv but I didn't like the way he approached it. We had discussed and and I thought he had agreed with me (obviosly not) My appraoch is a more of a compromise.... let's start with this and if that doesn't work make it clear to DS and do that (hope that made sense)

I don't think I would help DS if I didn't feel pressure from OH that DS should be finished earlier.... argh.... just so frustrated