I don't even know where to start..

He dropped the bomb shell last night while we were going to sleep..

It all starts with when i met him 5 years ago he was in debt over $20,000. He was stressed about it, especially when he had an accident and couldn't work for 3 months and all his bills became too much and he had no choice but to become insolvent. I'm not sure if any of you ladies have heard of Fox Symes but they paid out his debt and he is supposed to make weekly repayments.

Here comes the problem.. i lost my job 3 weeks ago and he told me that everything will be fine that he has everything under control. The other day i went and had lunch with him and after lunch while i was walking him back to work he tells me that he's having a few issues with a few of his bills. and he tells me that he is defaulting on a few of them including Fox Symes i was absolutely furious.. he goes on and tells me he is over $3000 behind in his bills, thats a combined amount. We DONT have $3000!!!!

So then last night when he came out with his wants to go bankrupt i was speechless. I don't know that much about it. Will it affect us in the future? Do you think he is being too rash? I just don't know what to do. He said that if he does that then we will have money to spend on us getting married and starting our family. But i just dont know.

Have any of you ladies gone through anything like this?

Any advice is appreciated