When I had family tell me on Sat night they think it's weird that I have invited my Aunt whose memories of childbirth are very very bad & they still upset her... Either born still & whisked away never to be seen again or of both premmies being whisked away & only being allowed to see them 2 days after birth due to her having a hissy fit...

I realised how far we have come
I dont see it as weird, bizarre or strange... I am comfortable with childbirth, I welcome labour pains, contractions & that utterly delightfyl stge when i can push, I enjhoy labour (I know it sound weird) but I have no fear whatsoever about labour, so I personally think it will be great for my aunt to experience & I am thrilled that I can share t with her!

She is excited that she gets to be with us & gets a practise run before her won daughter settles down & has kids as she has memories of labour being fearful & is scared that she wont be a good support person for her daughter!

My Midwives have assured me that I can birth Zyon wherever I choose, they will get in any position they need to when I am ready to push & wont expect me up on a the bed or anything else... I am so excited & looking forward to labour, I actually cant wait...

I must admit I just read what the guy wrote & dismissed it with a grain of salt... Cleraly he & I dont have the smae thoughts, but I dont think any one of us on here would agree entirely with another!

However I think overcoming the fera of labour goes a massive way into having a pleasant birthing experience... But I agree ultimately assist me in birthing a healthy baby & I will be most happy!!!