41+5 isn't generous. I would be pushing for more time before induction, not more time after ARM. Because once those waters are broken, its even harder for baby to move into anterior position.... plan to let your baby come in his or her own time, then if mum or bubs isn't happy or healthy then look to induction. You can negotiate with monitoring every day or scans. Ironically, my nanny who is here today just got an SMS from a friend who had an unneccesarian when she was induced and it also failed after intense labour.