I don't know what the go is here in cairns but my plan is to labour in secret & give birth at home before DH has a chance to get into a panic & make me go in LOL
oh no!! you can't do that to him, although i can understand you wanting too

no words of wisdom......im positive as well, but dont know much about it to be honest. i was given positive with DD and was classified as 'high risk' anyway cause i'd had pre-ecplampsia and an emergency c/s with DS, so.......when she was born didn't think much about it.....that's so great that your midwife is really trying to accomodate what you want though....hopefully it all turns out without too much complication. good luck on the upcoming birth! xxxx