Catherine, no I haven't... I haven't said anything as I hadn't even asked anyone until a few days ago... but it's that I don't really want to do it more than anything. I know he'll be ok etc... it just doesn't feel right leaving him and I really hate to think of him waking up without either of us with him. It won't be family with him but a girl from our mother's group and she also has a little one so she would come here then her hubby would drop their little man off in the morning if it was middle of the night. As for pressies... haven't done that yet but we will do the one from the other for both

Sneaky, yeah the hospy don't mind them being there but they are your responsibility... so they can be in the birthing suite. Don't have anyone to bring him there though and stay with him and us... besides I don't have anyone else I trust or want in there with us anyway so we can't watch him and have a baby at the same time in that respect...lol.

This is a hard one... don't like it...lol. I can't really explain it more than it just doesn't feel right to me leaving him. I don't know if that makes any sense to anyone else or if it's just me.