Im having extreme anxiety issues about leaving my kids, and so I understand. I went and saw the mental health nurse whom the midwives at my hospital recommended. I am now doing meditation each night for 10 mins, and will be doing a calmbirthing course, just because i need the relaxation techniques.
It's not going to "fix" my feelings, but I know how much I need to learn to meditate properly, and I know it will benefit me in the future.
As for leaving them, I am just going to do my best to be home within 48 hours. Assuming bub is ok, that's about as long as I'd stay anyway. Just plan to go home early and try some breathing techniques. What Im doing is as simple as being aware of my breathing for 10 mins while lying in bed at night.
good luck and hope all goes well. xoxo
Ps as for you little man, he'll prob think it's christmas when his friend turns up the next morning!! He'll be fine. And maybe just spend some extra time with the mother who will be looking after him xoxo