Birth Preferences... advice, comments, have I missed something?

[Jas]

good plan! It's great to see you have a written plan for different circumstances. Even though you might be disappointed if you

I'll go through a few things you might want to comment on that I can think of.

Lights - do you want them on, dimmed etc.

If you had to have one would you prefer vaccum or forceps delivery? Do you have any other preferences in terms of this?

How about cleaning and wrapping your baby?

Maybe list what drugs you would prefer or any that you will not consider and in which order you will opt for them? - I know youare after a drug free birth but might be good to include incase you get to the point where you decide you want something, you know what you want and in which order. When you are in labour your ability to think and make decision just isn't there so maybe think about that.

Also in terms of your other post I would include something in your birth plan about support people and people waiting outside. Depending on the hospital layout they would almost certainly have to wait in the waiting room and not be allowd just outside the door. Add your wishes on this and also for after the birth. That way you won't have to deal with it on the spot.

I would maybe include that shell is your partner, if you are worried she will be treated as a friend, family member etc. That way it is clear this is a very important experience for her too.